7 Rules You Simply Must Follow for Successful Casual Dating
Casual dating is the prefect choice for men and women out there who are looking for a no strings attached, emotionally relaxing and sexually fulfilling relationship. If you're tired of constant drama, mind games, fights and everything else that comes with a "regular" relationship, this may be the perfect choice for you.
But, how to be successful at it? If you tried before, you probably realized that it's not as simple as it may seem at first glance. Luckily tho, it can be, if you implement these 7 rules you simply must follow for successful casual dating.
Set the Boundaries
First thing you should do is set the boundaries. If you don't want anything serious, make sure you really mean it. Not just you, but your partner also. To be successful at no strings attached dating, both persons involved need to be completely emotionally distanced.
So, make sure you and the other person too are completely certain you won't get emotionally involved.
Don't Play Games
Do not play mind games. Dating with no strings attached is supposed to be fun, relaxed and emotionally stable. Try not to play games at all.
Be relaxed and open. Talk to the other person if you see a problem arising or if something in your casual relationship is bothering you. It's all about mutual pleasure and fun, so be sure to not play any mental games.
Keep the Distance
Remember, you're not in a committed relationship, so avoid asking questions about personal issues, past, childhood and everything else that may seem too personal.
Off course, regular communication is good, even recommended, but try to keep the distance. Don't get too personal and give your partner more space than you would in a usual relationship.
Date Other People
Date a few people casually at the same time. This will additionally help you get the emotional distance needed, plus it will also give you a great variety of options to choose from, which means you won't get tired or emotionally committed to one of the partners you see casually.
Off course, life should be explored and enjoyed fully, so if you have the opportunity to date a few people at the same time, take it.
Be Honest
When it comes to dating someone, or even a few people casually the most important thing is to be honest.
Be open and honest about your intentions from the start. You don't want to end up hurting yourself or someone else, so be as honest as you can. from the very beginning of a casual relationship.
Respect Your Partner(s)
If the relationship is free from emotions, doesn't mean that your partner is. Maybe they are not emotionally attached to you, but everyone has feelings.
So, try to not hurt the other person involved. Treat each other with respect and understanding and you will have a happy, pleasing casual relationship.
Keep It Simple
Keep your casual relationship(s) simple and stress free. Remember, there is plenty of fish in the sea, so if anyone is mistreating you or behaving inappropriately in any way-end it all. You are not emotionally attached to anyone and neither is anyone to you, so don't be afraid to draw the line between yourself and your partner.
The point of casual dating is to enjoy yourself and the time you spend with other people.