The Ladies Guide To A One Night Stand
A one night stand is something that women crave for as much as men do. It is wrong to think or assume that only men are interested in some emotionless free sex. Women too at times want to experience this wonderful feeling but getting the one night stand can at times become really confusing and challenging.
However with this interesting guide to a one night stand women can now kiss goodbye to all the problems that come along with getting a one night stand.
Be confident and know what you want. While taking a few drinks at the local bar, you can identify your target and approach him with a lot of confidence. Confidence is one of the sexiest attributes any woman can have. Most guys love confident women.
You are lucky if a guy notices your confidence and energy because he will definitely get to appreciate your guts. This will ease your work of trying to get him.
Make it a simple chat and avoid asking unnecessary questions such as his last name or his twitter handle. Don’t think of exchanging contacts at this point.
That will come later but only on one condition. Remember you’re looking for a one night stand and not a date.
Don’t drink yourself silly. This especially applies to the ladies who like taking one too many. Just drink enough to get you high so as to slightly impair your decision making but not too much to the extent of passing out.
You should know that no guy loves the presence of a puking lady or one that he will have to babysit instead of enjoying some good sex with her.
Once you get him to talking to you and agreeing to the idea of a one night stand, insist on having it at your place. This is purely because of safety reasons.
If he insists on having it at his place then inform one of your friends on your whereabouts but the best decision is having it at your place.
Insist on the use of condoms. Health and safety definitely has to come first. Remember you have just met this guy and you do not know him.
Do not take the risk of having unprotected sex but instead insist on the use of protection. If he does not want to use protection then you can as well cancel it because I am sure you would not want to risk your life for a one night experience.
Prepare an exit strategy. If you went over with him to his place then you should look for a reason to leave early once the sex is over. You can come with reasons such as you having an early morning meeting or going to see a sick patient at hospital.
On the flipside if you went with him to your place then you should have something annoying or disturbing that will make him want to leave as early as possible. This can be a disorganized room or an awkward smell in the house. But before you leave or he leaves, this is the part you get to exchange contacts but only on one condition that the sex was good.
If you loved it then you will definitely want it again so get to exchange contacts with him and place him on your booty calls list so that you can get to call him and do it again when in the mood.
You should however remember that the sex you had was with no strings attached. Get to know the difference between good sex and love. You just had good sex with him, you don’t love him, so don’t get yourself confused and bring in any emotions.